EMDR Intensives for Couples
Releasing the burdens for a deep, connected, safe relationship
Marriage can be hard. So fucking hard. It can be even harder when two partners have childhood attachment wounds and/or complex trauma. This can leave you feeling like there must be something wrong with your marriage that doesn’t look like the others. Between the never ending cycles and the outside pressure to have the “perfect” marriage, it can feel daunting to find repair within your relationship.
We’re told “Marriage is hard” and that apparently if we “never go to bed angry” we are destined to live a married life…
Thanks, that’s super helpful as we navigate anger, deep sadness, affairs, stress of trying to find a balance, while we are doing it all.
And definitely not talking about how hard it is or how different if feels.
Is that really marriage?
Or could it be
Marriage is hard, Really f*cking hard. AND we need to talk about the why within the relationship. We’re sprinkling in NEVER feeling heard, ALWAYS being the one to do the chore, NEVER having help and ALWAYS feeling like a burden. Oh wait, sex needs to be in there somewhere to they say…
It really makes sense that the one person we are trying to feel the most connected too, scares us the most.
And this is showing up in the relationship, creating disconnection. Both people experiences the fear of rejection, abandonment and being unwanted from the one person they thought was going to finally make you feel loved.
As we explore your current relationship and past life experiences, we will begin to heal those wounded parts using EMDR. Creating safety and connection within the relationship; while introducing effective communication and ways to truly connect to create the love you have always desired.
Yes, marriage is hard. But what if it’s also beautiful.
Creating the space within to find the beauty within the relationship. To heal. To learn how to overcome everyday occurrences. Everyday. Therapy created for healing. For connection.
You and You Partner May Benefit From EMDR If You Are:
- Desiring an intimate connection, but unsure how or why you are not experiencing connection from your partner.
- Feeling defensive, angry, like your partner just doesn’t get it. Experiencing thoughts that if your partner would just stop being critical, irritated or help more, you could be happy.
- Betrayal or affairs within the relationship and you are wanting to heal
- Disconnected, feeling as though you are living as “roommates”
- You say “Everything’s Fine” but you crave to release the mask
- Parenting together seems like a never ending battle
- One or both partners experienced big events or trauma throughout your life
Fine Print
- 90+ minute sessions. During your first session while getting to know your partner and the goals of the relationship, we will develop a treatment plan for upcoming sessions
- Due to the length and intimacy of the sessions, EMDR for couples is self pay at this time. $250 per 90 minute sessions.
- Schedule a free 15 minute consult here to see if EMDR is the best fit for your relationship
Developing
Safety + Connection within the relationship
Through EMDR, we will clear past burdens that show up in your relationship everyday. You and your partner will be on a transformative journey to become vulnerable with each for that deep, unshakeable love you desire.